staying positive
A friend recently wrote a blog called “Blogging Tips” – where he listed (among other things) that you should keep your blog positive. I agree. Writing about positive things helps us to stay positive, and I don’t believe that being critical of others is usually our job. Besides, there are always enough critical people our there, we need more positive.
I know, the bible says “as iron sharpens iron” but I don’t think iron does that by telling the dull sword that he’s dull.
At my church, one of our core values is that we respect others, and it is never appropriate to tear down other people, organizations, or religions. In other words, it’s not our job to tell others what’s wrong with them.
Our words should “taste good” as food is “seasoned with salt” so that we make the most of every opportunity. Does criticism taste good?
I have a very hard time with this sometimes. How do you stay positive when someone is hurting someone? Or when their words or actions are not helping the situation? I have to hold my tong – wait for the right moment, and use positive words or actions to set a good example. I don’t always wait long enough.
What works for you?